Focus
The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new!
Fear
Don't let your fear of what could happen make nothing happen!
Have vs. Want
Do you have to go to work or do you want to go to work? When you 'want' to do something you tend to feel more favorably about it then when you 'have' to do something. Work on changing your 'have' to 'want'.